I was delighted to meet Eamon Nancarrow – lead singer for No Hot Ashes the other week at a festival and we talked at some length about Failure, Dementia and Rock’n’Roll. No Hot Ashes have just ‘risen from the ashes’ to play their 80’s styled melodic rock again. This began in 2013 when they played a tribute gig for the recently closed Rosetta Bar, THE venue for Northern Irelands’s rock and metal scene from the early 80’s and also as a tribute to their old manager Stephen Magee who passed away before his time.
Eamon told me the amazing story of his father who, at the age of 80, elected to look after his wife with dementia over the last four years at home. This is real heroism as he pointed out. Eamon wrote a song to celebrate his father called “Boulders”, with proceeds going to a basket of Dementia charities. Don’t just watch the video, buy Boulders and support dementia, a silent disease, mostly ignored in favour of the big cancer charities.
You and me started out as friends
We’ll see this journey to the end
Renewed our vows helped us carry on
What doesn’t kill us, makes us strong
Eamon is also a writer with three books to his name. The latest is called “Holywood Star: the life and times of a rock and roll misadventurer”. The book gives great insights into what it was like growing up in the tough surroundings of Northern Ireland, while trying to look like David Coverdale. Eamon tells one of the incredible stories on the film below. Holywood Star is very witty, but Eamon also makes some serious points about the contradictions and paradoxes of living life in a divided land.
An enduring theme of the book is that, no matter how bad things get, there is always a funny side to your situation – a point that I recognise in my own life, having worked with Aylesbury’s greatest failure, John Otway, having lost my heart, soul and bank balance on John’s failed world tour.
I really enjoyed talking with Eamon – a very perceptive soul with a big heart. Do check Boulders and No Hot Ashes out.
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